Five ways to show your child that he is important
1. Look at the child with a gentle gaze.
2. Smile when the child enters the room.
3. Reciprocate when your child touches you.
4. To ensure that your child truly hears you, establish a contact before speaking to him (for example, look him in the eyes or put your hand on the child’s shoulder).
5. Inquire what the child would like to engage in together with you.
Applying it daily, you will significantly enhance your relationships!
Three tips for strengthening relationships with children and teens
Even if it seems like older children are distancing themselves, they still need strong relationships with close people just as much as younger children.
How can you strengthen the connection with your children?
- Listen without giving advice or saying any reprimands.
After the child finishes telling something, you can ask: "How do you feel about it?"
Important: While listening, stay calm and friendly, regardless of what they might say in response! - Look at family photos together.
The emotions you feel while looking at the photos and sharing stories from your life will create a special bond. - Show interest in childrens’ hobbies; offer to join them in what they enjoy.
Even if the activity seems uninteresting or you think that it’s a waste of time, try to understand what draws them to it and “get on their wavelength.” If you don’t show interest in your child’s or teen’s hobbies, they’ll find someone else to share them with. It may reduce opportunities for you to enjoy time together.
To make these approaches effective, be attentive and sincere!